Category Archives: Love
21 things I won’t miss from my Twenties ( This picture is definitely one).
Gaining Weight: I gained a lot in my 20’s close to 100 pounds. I’m finally starting to lose some of it, and balance my body weight. I really don’t have … Continue reading
All the Single Christian Ladies, Just Throw Your Hands Up!: Standards Raised
I couldn’t take it anymore. This beautiful Christian woman, lamenting about how she followed Steve’s rules, and she still didn’t find herself in a healthy relationship. I was dumbfounded. I … Continue reading
11 Things I Learned in Costa Rica
Poverty is not relative. It’s a curse. I saw real poverty while traveling through the central valley, and I’ll never forget it. An American Passport is Platinum in your pocket! … Continue reading
6 things I’m Glad I did Before my 30th Birthday
1. Grow My Locs I made this decision almost three years ago. I locked up on my 27th birthday and haven’t looked back since. There is a freedom in wearing … Continue reading
Pause: A Crucifixion Type Love
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E9doP6EtHk
Love has been defined by many but fulfilled by few. I went o a Spoken Life even at my church last Friday night, and the poet Brent Rice blew me away with his interpretation of Love. He emphatically stated he wanted a crucifixion type love-one where HE deliberately dies to himself for new life with another. I went to the event with a man of God I have been dating for a couple of weeks- and it was an interesting set of words to sit under on a 5th date. But I for one am an avid fan of setting High Expectations 
Pause: Clap for Black Love
Black Love is beautiful. Our vision of the superlative relationship often stems from our experiences. For me, aesthetically, there is nothing greater than two intelligent Black people; living their life … Continue reading
European Flow: I no longer like men that don’t love me
I learned from my high council; mother, aunties, and best friends, that when you turn thirty a light bulb goes off, your tolerance for foolishness is at an all time low, … Continue reading
